Episode Transcript
[00:00:02] Welcome to the making of you. I'm Alexandria, founder of the Mastery Project and YourTransformationHub.com and now this podcast. Welcome. This is episode 34, and today we're going to get straight into it. The subject is five whys. Balance isn't boring.
[00:00:23] Okay, so number one, balance for me is a very misunderstood concept or state of being. And first and foremost, I want to put the record straight, because a lot of people say to me, balance literally is boring. You don't get any highs or lows, it's got very little to commend itself. Or it's for something you do in your old age, for example.
[00:00:51] Well, firstly, I'm going to say, no, that is not the case. And it's not the case because balance is a point of infinite capability and infinite potentiality. And the sooner we harness it in our world, the sooner we're going to see the benefits of doing that. So balance brings first and foremost our masculine and feminine energies together. Now, we need both parts of this to make a whole and to be able to create the life that we truly want. So the masculine side is our doing energy. It's our capacity to focus, it's our capacity to take responsibility, to ground, to apply and to want to take the action to create the material and physical benefits.
[00:01:42] Now, yes, we need doing energy, of course we do, because we're living in a material world. But we also need the feminine energy, which balance helps us with. So the feminine energy is about contemplating, about receiving with our cosmic antenna, understanding, having the sentience and the feeling, nurturing ourselves, being self loving, and also taking that receiving state in order to get into alignment to what is for our highest good and what is truly beneficial, beneficial for the whole of our fulfillment landscape. So the feminine is a lot of being, okay, and the masculine is a lot of doing. And together you've got a hundred percent of your creative abilities there for the aligning and for the fueling.
[00:02:38] So also with balance, you're going to understand that when your masculine and feminine are together, that you do have a very, very strong alignment with the cosmic flow, literally. So call it energy, call it God, call it all that is, whatever way you relate to it, be it scientist, spiritual, religious, whatever way, you want to be in alignment with that flow. And if you're balanced with your masculine and feminine, so you understand the doing part and you understand the being part and the inspiration and the alignment of both of those, then you're going to to be in a very supportive place for your own abilities.
[00:03:26] Okay? So Anything you want to create is going to basically be fueled pretty much with 100% of your creative, energetic alignment. Okay, number two, you know, I talk about heart mind alignment all the time. Take episode three, episode 12. I'm always saying to you guys, please, please, please look at your heart mind alignment. Now, in a lot of ways, it is very much related to your masculine and feminine states of being. Your heart, of course, is your receiving energy. It's that place where everything is possible. It is the gateway to all of that immaterial, beautiful energy that is literally pouring into your life, courtesy of your divine spark connection. So your unique individual presence, your beingness, is receiving 24,7.
[00:04:26] Now, when you're in balance, your heart and mind are going to be balanced up beautifully, all right? Which means you get the benefit of that huge vortex that's your heart center. So you hear all of the uplifting messages about your purpose, your meaning about what you are. Inspired, enthusiastic, and what you believe is your potential. And you're going to, with the mind, do the work in the material and the practical and the application, and you're going to work out how to bring all of those elements, those visions, those dreams, and the wishes that you have for your path forward and your experiences into this world. So the mind is all about making it happen in the physical. What choices do you need to make? What situations do you need to commit to?
[00:05:18] Okay, so when your heart mind alignment is in balance, like I've talked about previously, then you're going to get pretty much a full download of energy moving through the center of yourself, which means that your connection is going to be incredibly efficient. But when it isn't, then you're going to be in a situation where you have a lot of of energy being wasted scattered around you and not being centered and not being focused on what you truly want to produce. So what does that mean? You're not energizing your fulfillment, you're actually wasting the connection. All right? Now, some people say, oh, it goes into your subconscious or it goes somewhere else within you. What I simply say to people is, greater balance, greater alignment, greater fulfillment in all sectors of your life.
[00:06:15] So balance isn't boring, all right? It's one of the most effective and efficient ways to use that fabulous energy and to be able to celebrate who you are by harnessing your infinite potential.
[00:06:30] Okay, number two, point of least resistance. Well, in a way, I've covered that already for you in the sense that I'm saying if you're super efficient with the flow of energy in your world, Then you're going to have a relatively low resistance. Now what do I mean by resistance? Well, resistance is often characterized in our world actually about doing what we like over actually doing what is self loving. Now the gap between those two things has expanded hugely in the last 20 years because our society has replaced a lot of its relating energy, all right, with an online mentality, an indirect digital relationship or living through things. All right, so through box set binging, or through our phones or through external stimuli rather than perhaps kicking it old school and simply living in a direct relationship both with ourselves and other people.
[00:07:41] So what's happened? Well, we have been scattering our energy around and that actually means our connectedness and our balance point is less effective because what we end up doing is we don't stay in the sort of middle of ourselves if you wish, we're walking out in a direction that's sort of, let's say to the right or to the left of ourselves. But we're also kind of scattering our energy there and we're not actually allowing the energy to connect fully in our heart center, to our reality, to our experiences.
[00:08:20] So the key with balance is to say yes, I love doing this, I like doing this, what is the difference? And like can often be forming habits to avoid what we actually need to face, what we need to become, or the actions that we need to take. So I'm all for fun, I'm all for divertimenti, all for entertainment and joy and laughter. This is all part of the heart center and all part of balance. But when our balance shifts to doing everything we like and actually forgetting what is self loving, that's when we have a problem with the affective aspects of our creativity because we're relying on out there to fulfill us rather than for us to be harnessing and taking command of what truly we know from our own personal truth fulfills us.
[00:09:21] So number two, look at what you like, look at what you love, look at the self loving balance, look at the self discipline. I know they sound like heavy words to rain on one's parade, but try and balance the nature of entertainment and external with what truly brings joy. And sometimes, as I said, when we reach for the easy, we reach for the box set binge, we reach for some product outside of ourselves to cheer us up, then we are not actually contributing to our balance point. So just flagging it, not having a go at you, just saying, please ask yourself, do I really truly love what I think I like? And that's a key question to be asking. All right, so when you're in balance. You've got much more energy, a greater connection, and a more effective use of your connection. And that means more fulfillment for you in all, all areas of your experience.
[00:10:23] Okay, number three. Well, when you're balanced, if you look at the greater connection, if you will, with the, the expanded energy, the immaterial aspect of yourself, it's much easier to get your message clear and also to have that message amplified. So whatever you want to create, it's going to be amplified and it's going to arrive so much quicker if you are in balance. So you're balancing doing and being. You're doing a little bit, you know, of action and research and talking to people and getting that project off the ground. You're also doing a bit of being and you're contemplating and fueling the qualities and concepts that you want to create.
[00:11:07] So it's much better in the old language to catch God on a whisper than a scream. All right, so balance allows us not to have to go through extreme ups and downs in order to create what we want because our message is getting conveyed effectively.
[00:11:25] Alrighty, number four.
[00:11:27] Well, balance helps us with all states of healing and rejuvenation. What do I mean by that? Well, balance isn't trying. It isn't hanging out on the edge of a cliff, some polarity, some extreme state of being which is stressing our embodiment. Balance is giving us a chance to sleep well, it's giving us a chance to replenish. It's giving ourselves a chance to rebalance our heart and mind. And also, for example, in our dreams, to hear that constant dialogue that we have between the unconscious processing of ourselves. All right, what we suppress, what we don't want to feel, what we haven't got time for, and balancing that with what we want to achieve and how we want to feel and who we are becoming.
[00:12:17] So when we're balanced, we get a much better quality potentially for all of the elements of rebirth, rejuvenation, and the ways that we need to realign on a daily, weekly, monthly basis. All right, so finding time for balance. Think of it as connecting in to refine your creative brilliance, to hear yourself better, and also to rejuvenate and replenish yourself effectively.
[00:12:48] Okay, my last point today is you're going to increase your capacitance to have all the yummy, lovely, great stuff that you want in your life. And the key here is that you are going to be moving to a higher and higher frequency through your balance. Now, I know a lot of people look at creativity in a linear fashion. Improvement is, oh, it's much better from what I used to do to today. That's one way of looking at it. Or I aspire to the future, that it's going to be better there. But if you stay in balance and in the now, you've got access to everything all around you, flowing through you in all directions consistently. Now, I know that might sound a bit overwhelming. It's actually not. Because when you're balanced, your heart, mind alignment is accessing what is of most service to you. What aligns the best, what will be the most optimal connectedness. Okay, so the key with your creations imbalances. You're not only aligning well with past and future because you're now, you're also in a position where you can raise your frequency. And that means your creativity can become faster, even instantaneous. And instantaneous creativity is quite natural to us, in truth. But because we have a tendency to polarize and exhaust and waste our energy outside of ourselves, we haven't quite necessarily kicked into that magical capability of spontaneity and instantaneous creativity.
[00:14:35] Okay, that'll do it. I'm Alexandria, and I am very happy you joined me today. Thank you very much indeed. Please check out my other episodes all about creativity to help you. And I hope you've sort of learned a little bit about how balance can really, really fuel your life and create beautiful things with relatively little effort. Thank you very much.
