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5 whys inner beauty is a beacon to magnetize the life you're meant to have. Empower your best side and invest in the best version of yourself by nurturing who you truly are.
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Welcome to the Making of you. I'm Alexandria, founder of the Mastery Project in your Transformation Hub. And this podcast is dedicated to the whys and ways to transform mundane into magical, doable into enjoyable, successful and purposeful. All while becoming the architect of your own life.
Okay, so let's dive in. This is episode five whys. Beauty starts from within.
And my number one is of course, what is beauty? Well, for a lot of us beauty boils down to your look, how you are perceived by other people and are you easy on the eyes. Now of course being physically beautiful is a wonderful asset in this world, but perhaps that's not the only level of beauty. And if beauty starts within, what is going to be the harmonizing or unifying factor? Well, I personally believe we have beauty in our emotional, mental, physical and spiritual selves. And so all of that starts within with our natural, unconditionally loving connection to all that is to the greater consciousness. And that consciousness has an immaterial or non physical component and it has a material component. So beauty on the outside is of course the physical aspect. But what you choose is going to be one of the greatest ways to build your state of beauty in your life, whatever it may be, emotional, mental, physical or spiritual.
So beauty for me is all about self loving choices. It's about loving choices. And for you it's about saying, hey, I've got a choice every day of my life. I can be negative, I can be resistant, I can hide from change, I can sort of camp out in a comfort zone and hope change will never find me.
Or I can be honest and say if I'm in loving consciousness, I am being in the choices that are going to create opportunities that are going to keep me open, going to keep me in connection in co creation with my life and my experiences. And I'm going to respond, I'm going to take responsibility from my heart center to co create and to harness that beautiful infinite potential within me.
So your beauty can then be multifold. It can be attractive, it can be humorous, it can be physically beautiful. You could be striking, you could be radiating your frequency, your energy and your high vibes which leave people in no doubt how beautiful you can be on all levels. So that's my number one. Beauty has a big unifying concept that starts within and starts with your command of your loving consciousness.
Okay, number two. Well, a lot of people will see beauty as graceful and as being a sort of gliding or a sense of effortlessness or a sense often of arresting beauty. Like someone is so amazing in their Energy that people just stop and literally perhaps stare or are stopped by that beautiful radiance and brilliance. So my number two is how are you going to get that state in your energy? Well, again, starts within. And I, you know me, I'm a big champion of the heart mind alignment.
So if you do want to establish balance in your life, then you're going to be able to command fundamentally 100% of your resources.
So what do I mean by that? Well, your heart, as I've said, is that beautiful infinite connection. It's natural, it's normal, but you do need to choose to use it and to choose to be in alignment with it. So when you are, you've got that infinite flow of fuel from the greater universe and bit like a filling station in the sky, you're plugged in, you're aligned. And so that energy can go into both the immaterial and the material. So whatever you want create, then you're going to be fueling it.
But of course we also need the practical, we need the physical. So we need to combine that with our mind, our mind in the sense of planning, structure, strategy, scheduling, that sense of making things physical, grounding them, taking responsibility in our physical world.
So for me, number two, if you want to be radiating your beauty, then remember that you need the fuel of your heart center and you need to consciously go within and connect with that and choose to align with it and choose to fuel your creations and also combine that with your physical groundedness, your responsibility and your ability to make those forms and literally to create the style of beauty or the form of beauty that you most align with.
Okay, so number three, well, I've touched on it very briefly.
Self loving is crucial in the sense of beauty. What do I mean by self loving?
A lot of people might go, oh, that's vain. You're just in love with yourself. Spend more time in front of the mirror than anyone else. I don't actually mean being in love with your image. What I do mean is being in love with the connectedness and the natural infinite potential that you are.
So being prepared to dive into that relationship with your heart center, being prepared to listen to your intuition, to listen to your sentience, to be sensitive to your environment, and also to find how you can literally align with self love in order to broadcast your beautiful radiance effortlessly. So it is a beautiful vibe. When people are in self love, things can unfold effortlessly. Some people will say, well, it's sort of a work study, you know, an observation of how to do things efficiently, that is part of it. But self love is also choosing wisely, consciously and with self awareness about what you want to put your energy into.
So a lot of people when they're being self loving, they think they're well organized, that is part of it. But to channel your beauty out there, to radiate that beautiful ease and grace that comes from self loving is to choose of course, to understand yourself better in the choices that you're making. So to deep dive within yourself to say, hey, what, what actually makes my life beautiful? So to appreciate that. But also what do I want to choose moving forward to experience the unfoldment of greater or different or more in depth experiences of what is beautiful.
So my number three is don't forget that being self loving is key to your beauty regimen. And it also is a great way to reduce scattering or wasting your energy because you're constantly consciously choosing what is going to keep your frequency high and you're not getting deviated or misdirected or scattered in the aspects outside of yourself that really if you asked yourself inside truly is that fulfilling, you'd probably say, no, I just, I'm doing it because it's a habit or I sort of lose focus or I'm not really into asking myself or I forget to ask myself what I truly want.
So I go on a few detours and then I'm not perhaps as self loving as I could be.
So my number three is beauty is about honoring your high frequency.
All right? Believing you're worthy, believing you are self loving and yourself loving in your choices that you make inside yourself. Listening to your personal truth and listening to what you truly want might not be easy. Doesn't mean that self love is the easy route of oh, I get everything I like. Self love is actually the wisdom to say, yeah, I'd like that. But I do know that that's kind of a misdirect in life. I wouldn't actually be harnessing my energy productively in the long term. Just a bit of an entertainment or a diversion.
So self love is sometimes a very courageous choice to make and it can consistently help you to build your beauty and to keep your resonance high. And as a result, you are attractive, you are someone people want to be with and you are of course fueling consistently in a balanced way, your inner beauty.
Alrighty. Okay, number four. Well, what do we do when we are beautiful? I think personally we understand from the inside out our relating in an environment and also our capacity to be of service, to be helpful.
Now a lot of people will say beauty is literally about your own energy, which it is. But part of that is also how you connect with your environment and how you connect in your relationships. A lot of people will say that they fall in love with the qualities of a person. If we're talking about romantic love, the beauty of their qualities, not necessarily the skin deep beauty. I'm not saying that isn't a big factor. But a lot of people will be looking beyond the skin deep beauty into the authentic and true qualities.
So why does beauty start within?
Because it is a radiation, a vibe of those qualities and the authentic truth of who you are.
So if you would say I don't really know who I am, or I don't know what I would champion as my core qualities or in your assets, I would say to you, go and spend some time with yourself. Don't be frightened. You're not on your own. You're spending quality time with yourself, understanding yourself better.
So beauty is built on understanding your inequalities and also being prepared to apply them, being prepared to experience what you truly believe in. And I think that is a type of beauty that people can find truly inspiring.
So for me, one of the greatest qualities, I'd say in number four is that you are courageous in your truth, that you are authentic in your truth, so you're aligned with what you truly believe.
And yes, there's a lot of information out there. There's a lot of voices attempting to persuade us to be different people or to follow different causes, or to be what perhaps society would like us to be rather than what the true nature of our is. And so there is always going to be that line or, or that path between conforming being with our limited beliefs, perhaps being with the limited perception of our beauty, and then the courageous choices to walk beyond and to keep walking and to keep engaging that unfolding path of beauty in all phases of our lives.
And a lot of people who would be considered beautiful at any age have really mastered understanding what their core qualities are and what really ignites them, keeps their passion, keeps their intuition flowing and keeps their connection radiating.
Okay, so number five.
Well, everyone is going to be thinking with this beauty starting within, how can you not age? How can you harness that beautiful vibe that is uniquely yours, your infinite potential, your inner connection, and perhaps be easy on the eyes for a long period in your life. Well, for me, when people ask me about how to stop aging, I always say to them, look, it is again about frequency and vibration. It is very much about a diligence in your daily life with your balance point. And a lot of people don't realize they age prematurely because of course they've had a lot of stress, they've had a lot of difficulties, a lot of obstacles to overcome, and as a result they've perhaps dehydrated, they've had a lot of adrenaline in their physical nature. So that can be very aging. And also they've been striving and been perhaps in a place where there's a lot of fear that needs to be recycled.
So for me, if you spend your life in fear, that is going to potentially age you quicker than someone who spends their life in loving consciousness. And as I've said in this podcast, it takes a lot of courage to be in loving consciousness. It's not some wimpy, faffy poor or soft aspect that makes you a doormat. It's actually the soft power that everyone understands is rising all around and that our global understandings of what love can truly create and achieve is becoming more and more appreciated.
So please don't let your inner critic, all right, criticize you, argue with you. Don't spend your time dwelling on past failures. Just keep wisdom harvesting and keep looking at the beauty of the process of what you've learned.
So how can you stop aging? My number five? Focus on the beautiful aspects of your life. Build upon them and be open, open hearted, open minded to all the opportunities that can reflect your inner beauty in the outside world.
Well, thank you very much for joining me today and wow. If you like this content, I hope you do. If you've learned something, had fun, then please like and subscribe on your podcast platform.
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